The RP related cyber-bullying needs to stop!
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 23, 2011 1:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

MrsTearii wrote:
IamCountDracula wrote:
Okay, then to clarify, this isn't about abuse reporting. It's about awareness. It's about making others aware that certain behaviour is wrong, cyberbullying and forced name changes are wrong, antagonizing people and targeting people over RP events is wrong.


This is why I made the sticker, I whole heartedly agree with this statement.


I couldn't agree more. I know there's a lot of bullying around especially for those who have guest names but come on.. it's not their fault.
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PostPosted: Sat Jun 25, 2011 7:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Anyone in this thread may want to consider the following...

The united front against the horrors of OOC drama


[Mod edit to keep link from stretching the page ~ Min]
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PostPosted: Sat Jun 25, 2011 8:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

That looks like a good group for ppl who still use imvu for rp.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 26, 2011 12:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Eamxu :

Greetings,

It is true, what you said. Most cyber-bullying sadly done by VIP or Non-Guest_ accounts toward people with Guest_ accounts. I have seen it many times, and you will be suprised that some of these Guest_ who stated in their Imvu profile as 18 are actually as young as 10 years old. Normally what can I do to help them is to let them be in my Imvu room (as most of them don't know how to role-play and will be an easy target to some users who considered themselves as "strict RP-ers" when actually they are just plain selfish by threathening these teens). As I also rolled with some T1 fighters (RP-ers) who will lend their help anytime, this is the way that I see can actually prevent cyber-bullying especially among young teens (where can help in providing "virtual protection"). I hope that most people will do the same, one is not strong against a herd Wink
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PostPosted: Fri Jul 01, 2011 11:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

This has happened to me, and a lot of friends. I'm a good sport, I allowed one of my characters to be killed off, I even agreed to change my character.
But I was told repeatedly to change my name :I
Not everyone has that kind of money, and, even if I did, no.
I feel sad because I know some people who disabled their account or actually changed their name.
What happened to roleplaying being fun, and not stressful?

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 01, 2011 12:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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This has happened to me, and a lot of friends. I'm a good sport, I allowed one of my characters to be killed off, I even agreed to change my character.
But I was told repeatedly to change my name :I
Not everyone has that kind of money, and, even if I did, no.
I feel sad because I know some people who disabled their account or actually changed their name.
What happened to roleplaying being fun, and not stressful?


The 'you must change your user name' rule stems back to the days of AOL's RhyDin and there is was perfectly okay because on AOL you are allowed up to seven screen names at a time and can change any of them for free at any time. IMVU is different. It costs money, money people don't have. You can't apply old AOL rules to different services.
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 13, 2011 12:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 13, 2011 2:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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PostPosted: Sat Jul 16, 2011 5:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think that's stupid. In one roleplay room - died
Other, TOTALLY unrelated - happy with grandchildren



Now, different

2 characters on one account - My account name isn't even named after any of my characters.


Are people seriously like this? I'm only 16 but I'd never do something so stupid as harassing someone for a bullsh!t game. I'm not gonna change my effing name every time a character dies, JUST because it's gone. I have better things to waste my REAL money on - like credits,yaoi doujins,cosplays, and art supplies - not a name change for a fricken site that has nothin' to do with my characters.


Do people SERIOUSLY act like this? I always went by the, "Your screen name describes you; NOT your character."


And if I find any people like those you've described, I swear I'm going to flame them like hell.
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PostPosted: Mon Jul 18, 2011 12:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

So happy to report today I finally recv word the person that has been bullying me for so long as well as about 20 other people at least has been suspended!!!!! We are elated thank you IMVU for finally hearing us out and helping all of us! We look forward to now at least a few weeks of peace and hopefully forever!
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 20, 2011 1:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

hey Guys ive been seeing a lot of cyber bullying myself on imvu. a very dear friend of mine is being bullied by two girls who think they are perfect and better than everyone else on imvu..she keeps talking of suicide. I will support the R.A.C.E Group. U have my full support. The cyber bullying on imvu does need to stop. Ive seen it so many times and heard of ppl committing sucide over it in the news. Just tell me what I must do to help...

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 20, 2011 1:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sadly cyber harassment doesn't just happen in rp. Because of that there are certain things that all users need to know about harassment. If you are facing harassment please make sure to read the Harassment:What to do? thread in the Common Questions and Solutions forum and the information that can be found in the Safety Link that can be found at the bottom of every IMVU page.
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PostPosted: Mon Jul 25, 2011 1:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

UPDATE about RP harrassment

So I thought it would be ok... but it worse than before... but I can see CS is improving and I am hopeful it will be taken care of Go Go IMVU please don't let us down!

don't get down folks the system does work, do what Celtic told you, IMVU is improving
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PostPosted: Fri Jul 29, 2011 5:38 pm    Post subject: I find this amazing Reply with quote

Ive been using Imvu for a few years now, mostly for rp in the beginning, then a little rp, little chatting, and a little creating off and on. I know theres always been drama on here, both rp and ooc but i took a bit of a break for a few months and just recently came back and boy was i amazed. There was a bit of drama in a rp i just started in where i blocked some people for "force collaring" with a nice litte ooc note to let them know why i blocked them and would not rp with them anymore because of my personal issues with that particular practice. Next thing I know i had "assasins" and alternate accounts of theres dogging my every move for days trying to kill my character off ect and telling me they where going to report me to IMVU and have my account deleted for Godmodding ect. I didnt believe it for a sec and my bock button got used quite often but I know i had some friends who where freaking out and crying in RL because they thought if they couldnt affort to change their name Imvu was going to disable them..I had a few that actually though IMVU would disable your account period if you got killed in rp and would not even let you change your name. They were frantic. It amazed me that someone actually thought that could happen. Or that these so called rpers thought that it was okay. I ran accross this thread, i didnt even notice till today that IMVU had put up a thread for rps haha tells you how far behind ive been. Its good to see that someones standing up against the BS.
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